Unwanted Pregnancy in Singapore: What Are Your Next Steps?
Dr Jen Shek Wei
Consultant Obstetrician & Gynaecologist
MBBS (Singapore), MMed (O&G) (Singapore), FAMS (Singapore), FRCOG (London)
An unwanted pregnancy can raise many questions about what comes next. Factors such as your health, personal circumstances, support system, future plans, and stage of pregnancy may all influence the options available to you. Understanding your situation and the choices available can help you determine the most appropriate next steps. Whether you are seeking confirmation of a pregnancy, exploring your options, or considering treatment, obtaining accurate medical information is an important part of the decision-making process.
Why Is a Medical Assessment Important After Discovering an Unwanted Pregnancy?
Before making any decisions, it is important to obtain accurate medical information about your pregnancy. A consultation with an OBGYN can help you better understand your situation and the options available to you.
Confirm the Pregnancy
If you have received a positive result from a home pregnancy test, an OBGYN can confirm the pregnancy and assess any immediate health considerations. This helps ensure that decisions are based on accurate medical information.
Determine How Far Along the Pregnancy Is
Your doctor may estimate the gestational age of the pregnancy through your medical history, physical examination, or ultrasound. Knowing how far along the pregnancy is can be important when discussing available options and treatment timelines.
Review Your Medical History
Certain medical conditions, medications, and aspects of your health may influence your pregnancy or the options available to you. A medical assessment allows your doctor to identify any relevant considerations and provide personalised advice.
Discuss Any Questions or Concerns
A consultation also provides an opportunity to ask question and clarify any concerns you may have. Understanding your situation and receiving professional guidance can help you make informed decisions about your next steps.
What Are Your Options During an Unwanted Pregnancy?
After confirming the pregnancy and understanding your medical circumstances, the next step is to learn about the options available to you. The most appropriate option will depend on factors such as gestational age, your health, and your personal circumstances.
Continuing the Pregnancy and Parenting
Some individuals choose to continue the pregnancy and raise the child. This option may involve planning for prenatal care, preparing for childbirth, and considering the practical, emotional, and financial responsibilities of parenthood.
Continuing the Pregnancy and Adoption
Another option is to continue the pregnancy and place the child for adoption. Adoption arrangements vary and may include open, semi-open, or closed adoption. Individuals considering adoption may benefit from learning more about the process and available support services.
Termination of Pregnancy
Some individuals may consider terminating the pregnancy. Depending on factors such as gestational age and medical suitability, this may involve a medical abortion or a surgical abortion. A doctor can explain the available options, what each procedure involves, and whether a particular approach may be appropriate for your circumstances.
How Do You Decide Which Option Is Right for You?
Choosing what to do after an unwanted pregnancy is a personal decision. While there is no single right answer, taking the time to evaluate your circumstances and discuss your options with an OBGYN can help you make an informed choice.
Your Health and Medical Circumstances
Your overall health, medical history, and gestational age may influence the options available to you. Certain treatments may only be suitable during specific stages of pregnancy, making it important to seek medical advice early.
Your Personal and Family Situation
Factors such as your relationships, family responsibilities, living arrangements, and support network may affect how you approach your decision. Considering these aspects can help you evaluate how each option may fit into your current circumstances.
Your Financial and Practical Considerations
Pregnancy, childbirth, and parenting will involve financial and practical responsibilities. Some individuals may wish to consider factors such as employment, education, childcare arrangements, and financial stability when evaluating their options.
Your Future Plans and Priorities
Personal goals, career aspirations, educational commitments, and family planning considerations may also influence your decision. Reflecting on both your current situation and future priorities can help you determine which option aligns best with your needs and circumstances.
Discuss Your Pregnancy Options with Dr Jen Shek Wei
Every unwanted pregnancy is different. Understanding your situation, the options available, and the factors that may influence your decision is an important part of navigating an unwanted pregnancy. Seeking timely medical advice can help ensure you have accurate information that is relevant to your individual circumstances.
At the Women's Clinic of Singapore, led by Dr Jen Shek Wei, care is centred around helping you feel heard, informed, and supported throughout the decision-making process. Whether you are seeking answers, exploring your options, or considering treatment, our team is here to provide compassionate, confidential care. Book a consultation today to discuss your circumstances and receive personalised guidance in a safe and supportive environment.
At the Women's Clinic of Singapore, led by Dr Jen Shek Wei, care is centred around helping you feel heard, informed, and supported throughout the decision-making process. Whether you are seeking answers, exploring your options, or considering treatment, our team is here to provide compassionate, confidential care. Book a consultation today to discuss your circumstances and receive personalised guidance in a safe and supportive environment.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs) About Unwanted Pregnancy
How soon should i see a doctor after discovering an unwanted pregnancy?
It is generally advisable to schedule a consultation as soon as possible after discovering an unwanted pregnancy. Early assessment can help confirm the pregnancy, determine how far along it is, and provide information about the options available to you. Seeking medical advice early may also help ensure that you have sufficient time to consider your next steps.
Is my consultation confidential?
Yes. Medical consultations are confidential, and healthcare professionals are required to protect your privacy. During your appointment, you can discuss your concerns, ask questions, and explore your options in a private setting. If you have specific concerns about confidentiality, you can discuss them with your doctor during the consultation.
Can I bring someone with me to my pregnancy consultation?
Many clinics allow patients to bring a partner, family member, or trusted friend to their pregnancy consultation for support. Having someone with you can help you feel more comfortable and assist you in remembering important information discussed during the appointment. However, clinic policies may vary, so it is advisable to check with the clinic beforehand.
How much does an abortion cost?
At the Women's Clinic of Singapore, surgical abortion fees for early pregnancies typically start from around S$1,200 to S$1,400, while larger pregnancies may incur higher costs. Additional charges may apply. The exact cost can only be determined after a consultation and assessment by your doctor.
Meet Our Women’s Health Specialist in Singapore
Dr Jen Shek Wei
Consultant Obstetrician & Gynaecologist
Bachelor of Medicine & Surgery (Singapore)
Master of Medicine (OBGYN) (Singapore)
Fellow of the Academy of Medicine, Singapore
Fellow of the Royal College of OBGYN (London)
Dr Jen Shek Wei is an obstetrician and gynaecologist with over four decades of clinical experience. He graduated from medical school in Singapore in 1979, having earned multiple academic awards, and went on to complete his postgraduate training in both Singapore and the United Kingdom by early 1985. Dr Jen began his specialist career as a consultant at several key institutions, including Kandang Kerbau Hospital, Toa Payoh Hospital, and the National University of Singapore. In 1988 he was elected a Fellow of the Academy of Medicine, Singapore, in recognition for his medical contributions.
In 1988, Dr Jen set up his private practice and opened clinics in Ang Mo Kio and Tampines to make women’s healthcare more accessible. These clinics have served a large and growing patient base ever since, reflecting his commitment to community-based care. Dr Jen’s patient-first approach has earned him a strong reputation for both clinical excellence and compassionate service.
In 1988, Dr Jen set up his private practice and opened clinics in Ang Mo Kio and Tampines to make women’s healthcare more accessible. These clinics have served a large and growing patient base ever since, reflecting his commitment to community-based care. Dr Jen’s patient-first approach has earned him a strong reputation for both clinical excellence and compassionate service.
In recognition of Dr Jen’s sustained contributions and expertise, he was named a Fellow of the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists (London) in 1999—an honour reserved for senior specialists who have demonstrated a significant impact on the field. His credentials reflect both a lifelong dedication to medicine and a deep commitment to advancing women's health in Singapore.
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